Or all your friends of color, for that matter. And still, you should fight.

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We are capable of genuine and loving connection, even if we’ve convinced ourselves that we’re better off alone.

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White people who cling to the illusion of whiteness left themselves no choice but to violently storm The Capitol on January 6, 2021.

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There’s a mass awakening and reckoning happening among gay men right now. Here are 5 things you can do to help.


In the midst of a global pandemic, many gay men are turning to parties in Puerto Vallarta. Understanding why is the first step toward making sure it doesn’t get worse.


Let us look within ourselves as we enter a new age of gay consciousness, joy, and connection.

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New year’s resolutions are cool, but have you ever manifested using a vision board?

Armando’s 2020 vision board.
Armando’s 2020 vision board.
My 2020 vision board


Make the Yuletide extra gay this holiday season with these amazing gay creatives and their projects! (7–12 + bonus!)

7. The Spiritual Gayz


Make the Yuletide extra gay this holiday season with these amazing gay creatives and their projects! (1–6)


Finding a boyfriend isn’t easy, but is our approach to dating all wrong?

Armando Sánchez

A clinical social worker who writes for the growth and empowerment of gay men to lead a life of love & fulfillment. Social media: @gaymenandblog

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